that's jolly good news!!

So I was chatting with god mother and she informed me that one of my old friends is getting married!! It's great news! But, damn! She's my age!! hehe. I should call to congratulate her. For those of you who do know her, which are only a few of you reading my blog. It's Bonnie!! I would never have thunk she would get married this early!! Man, I'm so happie for her.
Hehe. It's kinda sad as my godmother had asked, 'do u have a bf yet?' and I'm like nope! I gotta study! and she's like 'oh, that's alrite. but ah bon is getting married!!' It's like, talk about opposite ends of the spectrum! Hehe.
Nonetheless, congrats to this wonderful chickie!

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I didn't know I'd end up being him. Hehe. But try out this quiz! I had wanted to be that devil baby dude, but apparently he's not one of the outcomes of the quiz. Hehe.

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response to 'gut feelings' posting...

I expected to get a few comments regarding that post. I just need to re-explain my comment in response to some of the comments. It is absolutely normal and practically expected of those who care about you to comment/offer their POV/opinions with regards to your bf/gf. It is part of life to experience all this, and I do agree with P that no one is out to intentionally hurt someone, so just let time do it's thang and we'll see what does/does not develop.
I gotta restate that as a sis I'm obliged to state my opinions and try to break through the stubborness that I know my sister and I both have. As for my friends back home, I do and I really do stress this, that I did appreciate all the comments and concerns. As time has it, I do realize that my stubborness can be a disadvantageous tool. I just want you all to know that as much as I was stubborn, all of your concerns stuck with me and I really did take them into account. I just wish I had done things differently.
I have learned one thing from everything that has happened, and that is to never allow things to get so messy that it causes permanent rifts in friendships. That is something I have regretted since the day things started to change. As much as I have tried to rectify that and wish certain friendships can return back to how they were, I don't think things will ever be back to the 'way they were'. It's a lesson I have learned and it's definately something that I do not want to happen again. In this way, life experience sucks ass. I just have to say, if I haven't said/demonstrated already that I apologize to those that may have felt that I had pushed them away way back then. It was stupid and every now and then those days come back to bug me and make me feel really sad. I wish I could blame it on my immaturity back then, but I can't, it was just a dumb thing I did. Dammit! Relationships are hard!
Anyhoos, now I'm reeeeally late for class. Catch you all later.

oh the rain...

I know I've told you guys a million times before, but man does weather suck here. Hehe. It's another week of cloudy grey skies. On the brighter side of things, it's my last week of lectures. I handed in my last paper before the break and my presentation as well, so I'm a lil relieved. 3 weeks of relaxation plus a lil studying and paper writing is all good.
Some of my friends are going to Paris for a week, so lucky! One of my friends who went to McGill for undergrad will be heading to London, Paris, Amsterdam and Brussels with her bf! I was like "aw, that's so sweet!" She hasn't seen him since Sept! She is sooo excited, I think any gal would be. Hehe.
Anyhoos, blog later, got a lecture to catch. Btw people, again, Patrick is an adorable maltese puppy NOT a guy. Stop saying that I'm sounding desperate! Hahaha.

gut feelings...

So I was reading my sis's LJ and she was talking about flying to Chicago to see her bf over the easter weekend. Obviously, the protective sis that I am, I asked her if it was overdoing it. As flying sooo many hours just for 3 days seems a lil bit far fetched. Okay. I understand she's crazy about this guy. In a way, I am extremely happy for her that she found this nice guy. But, do you guys ever wonder/realize how important the view of those ppl around you are? By this I mean friends and family? I mean if they all have these "unsettled" feelings about this guy, one should really step back and see what these ppl are trying to tell you, rite? It's phunnie cuz I realize how annoying family can be. See, my mum has the habit of doing the whole slap in the face-type thing, whereby she'd tell it to you face that you're practically the whore of babylon or something for even visiting a bf. My dad on the other hand does the whole, he's not a bad guy, BUT I'll leave it to you to figure out why I'm not so ecstatic about him. And me? ofcourse I do the whole "I just dun like him, he's not good enough for you, TRUST ME!" thing. Hehe. But I guess when all the comments get pushed together, it can be pretty overwhelming, especially when you're at the stage of "I just like this guy cuz he's great to me. So leave me be."
All I can say is I guess when you find that "perfect" guy that you adore and your family adores, stick with him, cuz it doesn't get better than that. Hehe.
Hmm, now I sorta forgot what I'm trying to get at. Hehe. I guess I just wanted to say that when you have that gut feeling about a person, it's really hard to change that feeling. Whether it be a good or bad feeling. But I guess I hafta someone remind my sis that as much as I bitch about this guy, I'm happy if you're happy. As long as you dun cause mumsy to have an aneurism or something. Hahahahaha.