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Saturday, February 05, 2005

confidence…


Interesing, my long presumed deleted blog has mysteriously posted itself. Eerie. Anyhoos, I'm in an all confidence low. I’ve noticed something. Well, not noticed, I’ve known for a long time now. I’ve been trying to think of one thing I’m truly good at. I have come up with ziltch. Every now and then I try to think of something I’m good at so I can be proud of that achievement. But I dun have any. Everyone has something they are good at. I dun seem to have any. I enjoy doing certain things, but never something I am truly good at. It’s kind of depressing. You’d think it was okay if in the past you weren’t good at something cuz you hadn’t discovered it yet, but to be in the same position as you were when you were 10 is not very impressive. I guess all I can say is that I’m about ¼ into my life so I still have ¾ of the time to figure out the one thing I’m good at. I duno where this is going, I just felt like wondering.

3 Comments:

  • I don't believe that you aren't great at something... but I will play along. Perhaps you don't stick to something long enough to allow yourself to be good enough at something for you to realize it. I think if you find something you do well (for instance, your drawings) you should stick with it and thus you will feel that you are great at it. Who knows, maybe the lawyer thing is your calling and in a couple years you will see that you are great at your job! I think it just takes time to find out. Some people find out sooner than others.

    By Blogger jleung, at 1:42 PM  

  • Viv, I think you don't have to be good at something to be confident not to mention how do you define good, there is ALWAYS someone better than you. you should be confident about yourself! Just remember you are WONDERFUL! =D Luv u like a fat kid luvs cake! (((HUG)))

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 1:59 PM  

  • thanx guys! I will keep all you guys have said in mind. luv ya both like a fat kid luvs cake indeedo!

    By Blogger vivien, at 10:32 AM  

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